I'm effectively forced to buy most of my stuff online. The bike shops here are either so focused on only one brand of bike to the point that they're rude to people who ride something else, or their selection just plain sucks. We have a Honda dealer here, thank god, so I can go there for parts (although it's usually a lot slower,) but their gear selection is geared towards offroad stuff. The street selection is pathetic.
What sites do I use? All of them, really. I will open revzilla, motorcyclegear, jakewilson, cyclegear, twistedthrottle, and I think there's one or two other .coms that I'm forgetting. Find the stuff that I want on all of them and buy from whoever has the best price after shipping. If they offer to ship via USPS then that gets a lot of bonus points and I'll often pay $10-20 more just for that service because yes, UPS sucks that much.
My gear:
Shoei RF1000
Tourmaster Intake 2 jacket (summer)
Fieldsheer something jacket..it doesn't list the model on it and I bought it 3 years ago.. (winter)
Tourmaster WP Solution boots, sometimes. They don't fit too well since my wreck 2 years ago and I can't afford new ones at the moment.
During the winter I wear a ski bib for overpants, jeans during the summer. Bad I know, but pants are expensive and lately they don't fit for very long, nor is there much of a selection for size: lard ass..
AlpineStars GP-Plus gloves (summer)
AlpineStars Goretex (winter)